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My partner (30 meters) and I (25f) were together for 5 years. We lived together for 4 years. We are very love, we have a home and pets together, and I have no complaints about our relationship – I am really happy with it, and we have a wonderful chemistry.
We talked about participation/marriage before. Personally, I am not ready to marry at the present time, but I love the idea of engaging at least and getting an episode. Whenever you prepare the topic, it will really avoid and try to change the topic. It was confused for me, given that we had made this hadith before and “he wants to be with me forever.”
But I finally discovered the reason. On the last day, I noticed him sitting there, and was buried in his thoughts. She approached more and asked him to share what he was annoyed. I froze when he told me that he wanted to have children and wanted to make sure that the person who is married also wants children.
I don’t want children. We had multiple discussions on this topic after that, but we did not reach any kind of agreement. He mainly believes that I will change my opinion in the future, because I am still young.
I do not say anything is impossible, but I am sure I will not change my opinion. I know what is going on in motherhood and raising a child, and I honestly do not think it is for me. Also, I have a profession that having a child will really hinder.
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