My girlfriend deceived me with my brother – before I went to prison directly

Dear Abe: He was imprisoned for 21 months. Stay in contact with my direct family, except for my brother. I think he slept with my girlfriend two weeks before I came to prison, although I am not 100 % sure. Our family tells that it is not true and that he wants me to communicate. But I don’t know if I can be completely sure that he didn’t. Do you have any advice? Closed in Dilayer

Dear imprisonment: You are closed with little but your doubts to keep you on the company. Under these circumstances, I can see how you can grow. Why do you think your brother did this? What “feelings” did you pick up before leaving? If you really think your girlfriend will do something like this, why still do you consider her girlfriend? If it is not sincere before it is imprisoned, what makes you think it is different now?

You do not have evidence that any of them did anything. You must definitely talk to your brother and girlfriend about your doubts. If you do this, they may be able to rest.

Dear Abe: I enjoy keeping the family and friends to keep up with Facebook, but I have an increasingly developed political participation. Their messages are filled with anger and hatred. I was hoping that things would calm down after the elections, but their speech may intensify.

I have never been a friend of others who participated in similar views, but I am hesitant to do the same with the family. You have tried the “nap” for 30 days every time, but when they return, the posts are more disturbing. I feel very insulting some of what they write. Is it acceptable to be a non -friend family? If you notice and confront them, how should I respond? Different in Texas

Dear different: You are not obligated to read anything that bothers you. This includes the elements published by relatives. You can simply cancel it without her friend. But Facebook does not notify anyone who is not a friend, so don’t hesitate to eliminate it from your summary if you want it. If, by chance, it should face you on this topic, be honest about your cause without being combat.

Dear Abe: I will get married in six months and hosted a relatively small wedding (80 guests). My fiancé and I have recently received a history at the wedding of the college friend. It is scheduled to happen two weeks after our vacation. We will be in the honeymoon at that time and the inability to attend.

We were not originally planning to invite this couple to our wedding, but we now feel that we must invite them in order to explain that we will be in the honeymoon during their month. We did not send them a date conservation card. What is the best way to deal with this? We have a limited space and budget, so adding two people is not easy. – Otherwise, involved in New York

Dear otherwise: You are not obligated to invite this husband to your wedding. Write them a sweet note explaining that you are sorry because you will not be able to come because you will be in the honeymoon at that time. That’s all you have to do. However, it will be great to send them a small gift to be delivered at their wedding time along with warm wishes to enjoy the life of happiness together.

Dear Abe, written by Abigil van Burin, also known as Jin Phillips, and was founded by her mother Pauline Phillips. Call dear Abe in http://www.dearabby.com Or Po Box 69440, Los Angeles, California 90069.