My sister blames me for her daughter away

Dear Abe: My sister, “Jenny”, I suffered from the fall and I no longer speak. She is upset with me because she discovered her adult daughter, “Paisley”, she moved without telling anyone.

I discovered this when Bizley sent some mail to my house and later revealed that she moved all over the country. Jenny and Bezli were not connected. They had a huge argument six months ago and had not spoken since then. I was in contact with both. Bezley explicitly told me that she did not want to deal with her mother.

When I discovered that Bizley had moved, I asked if she wanted me to tell her mother because Jenny had prevented her. She said no. Our mother discovered that Paisley had also sent her mail to my mother’s house, and my mother believed that she was still in the city. I told my mother Jenny, and Jenny Ali erupted. I thought I was doing what everyone wanted. Were you the wicked in the story? – Your salary in Kentucky

Dear confusion: You did nothing wrong. Your sister broke out because you were within reach. It is a shameful thing that your sister and daughter could not fix the fences, but the error does not lie with you. Paisley moved to escape from the family’s defect, which may have been wise, because it seems that there is a lot of it. You are not evil, and you should not accept to be classified in this way.

Dear Abe: My wife is going continuously through video posts on her mobile phone while we are in the same room. She asked her to involve her ear headphones, but she rarely does it. Now, I simply turn off the TV and wait for two hours before it stops. I do not dare tell her that this is annoying. I tried to go to other rooms, but I feel besieged in my home with the passenger nonsense. When I tried to talk to her, you throw all my mistakes in my face to close it on this topic. Suggestions? Hear a lot in Ohio

Dear hearing: Yes, I suggest that although your wife has all the right to disappear in the rabbit hole in her mobile phone if she wants to insist on attaching the sound to you. She demands the involvement of her ear headphones is not rude – it is a natural response to force her to be an unwilling audience. In the past, I indicated that “the best defense is a strong crime.” This is the tactic that your wife uses so as not to have to cooperate.

Some sessions with the licensed family processor may help you become more assertive. If you cannot bring yourself to do so, my last suggestion is: Choose a activity that takes you away from the home and offers you a similar taste in entertainment.

Dear Abe, written by Abigil van Burin, also known as Jin Phillips, and was founded by her mother Pauline Phillips. Call dear Abe in http://www.dearabby.com Or Po Box 69440, Los Angeles, California 90069.